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The most annoying thing in the circle of friends is not only all kinds of rumours about life, but also those words that say something about happiness and education.

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It is not so much to cultivate children in their children's education that they can learn independently and have the spirit of diligence and hard work. It is better to cultivate their outstanding and responsible quality. Let them grow up and have a positive attitude and a sense of responsibility when they step into society. This is the most important goal that children should learn in their hard work.

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Happy education? Do not lie

Do not deceive yourself again, and don't give your child any happiness education. Because in this world, without any knowledge and skills, it can be obtained without difficulty.

Learning is never easy, and the world is the same. Looking at the people around us, we must make arduous efforts to achieve certain achievements. There is no such thing as losing the pie. Only through our own unremitting efforts and diligent study can we have the possibility of success.

The same is true of learning, who are not all the way to the hard work, who are not a lot of homework when they are children, sometimes they are not good enough to be criticized by the teacher? Do not think that foreign education is happy, in fact, in foreign countries, excellent Students, they must also study hard to achieve good academic performance.

If learning can make you happy, it is also the time for you to achieve results and rewards after your hard work. Without a boring and tormented learning process, it will be impossible to achieve academic performance that will make you happy.

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Can you play and get good results?

Do not instill in your child any happiness education. No matter what you say, most children cannot regard learning as a happy thing. Children naturally like to play, not let them know that learning is hard, their children will stay in place forever and stop. If you can play well and play well, how can they actively study?

The achievement of outstanding results requires the children to calm down while they are watching movies. But all good children, besides talented talent, are more of an acquired effort.

It is hard to imagine that if children do not study hard, have no goals, do not know how to pay, eat, drink, and play all day long, they will become willing to pay, work hard, and fight hard when they grow up.

Therefore, it is not so much the cultivation of children in their children's education that they can learn independently and have the spirit of diligence and hard work, it is better to cultivate their outstanding and responsible quality. Let them grow up and have a positive attitude and a sense of responsibility when they step into society. This is the most important goal that children should learn in their hard work.

We must let the children know that any road to achievement is always accompanied by twists and turns and full of hardships. To have good academic performance, we must work hard and hard work. This is also the responsibility of every child.

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Interested to love learning?

Everyone often says that teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is to say that interest is the best teacher. To educate children, we must first explore the children's interests. However, in fact it?

The child said that he likes to paint. When you report to him, he will say that drawing is too difficult. He will be bored every day. The child says that he likes the piano. He learned a few days. He said that every day The hands are worn out; I believe there are many such children who try to pass away. So, sometimes, interest is the most unreliable thing.

When we think about ourselves, we know that when you complain about the hard work, you will find an excuse to say that this is not my favorite job. But in fact, even if you like the job, when you face him for 365 days, do you say you will not bother?

In fact, there is such an explanation that some people are not not interested in what they are doing but are not able to do what they are doing. No one likes to do bad things. Everyone will consciously try to avoid their own shortcomings: people who sing and run often don't like to go to KTV with friends. People with bad skills are often very reluctant when they are called by friends, and the children's learning is the same.

Therefore, it is not only interested in doing a good job, but it is only after it is done. A lot of things are done, and they are naturally good at it; when they are good at it, they naturally do better than others; they do better than others, and their interest grows bigger. Then they like to do more and become better at it, thus forming a virtuous circle.

So, sometimes interest is not the first one. In addition to interest, it should be the insistence on things that children should be taught. One thing, since it is chosen, we must do our best to do it well.

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Education abroad is easy? We are all cheated

Our impression of foreign education:

After three vacations, a school at three o’clock, a near-game classroom lesson, and teachers’ patience and encouragement, it seems that as long as the children are not so mentally handicapped, they can easily get the teacher’s approval.

As a parent, you can't help feeling that reading in Europe and America is too easy, too easy, too simple. But in fact it is not what you think.

In the United States, a local primary school leaves school at 3 pm, and some children go home and jump. At this time, more children carried school bags, musical instruments, and went to various counseling classes.

The reality is this: In the United States, if a child does not go to a remedial class to make up a class, does not spend a lot of money to learn his talent, and does not participate in social activities to enrich his resume, then he is almost impossible to enter a prestigious university. Even if it is fortunate to be able to enter the university campus, it is not easy to get a degree.

The primary and secondary schools in Europe and the United States are indeed very different from those in primary and secondary schools in China, where students can withstand no pressure. Then after a few years of fun, most of the children are like this. They either go to a community college and mix for several more years, or go directly to find some low-level physical work days, or just start taking unemployment benefits and wander around the streets.

Look, this is a fact. Any study is an arduous effort. Do not instill in your children any theory of happy education and interest.

Learning is like climbing. When you rest, others have already reached the top. At this time, you realize that we have fallen so far behind.